Hello families! David is 8 months old!
Mother’s day is special for all mothers, but especially for those that are having their first. I had a very special weekend with my family and it made me think about a lot of things. I thought it would be good to share what has been on my mind as a new mother since you may go through similar experiences.
Becoming a mother was not just adding another identity, but rather it changed who I am entirely.
We have many identities that represent who we are. My new identity as a mother has changed the rest of my identities in terms of who I am and how I interact with others. For example, becoming a mother made me appreciate my parents more. Becoming a mother taught me how to work together with my husband better, and it has increased my sense of belonging.
Every moment with family is more important than ever.
Time has flown at the speed of light since I had my little one. He is growing too fast. I am trying to cherish every possible moment with him. I believe that my husband feels the same way so our family time during the weekends has infinitely more value when compared to before. Weekends are too precious, I cannot waste my time to regret or blame. So, what would bother me before does not bother me anymore. I have learned to focus on the positive things in life. Life with my little family is perfect now.
It was a bit sad to accept the fact that my little man is a separate human.
One day before the Mother’s day was the day baby D officially has lived longer outside of my body than inside of my body. He became a seasoned human being. I am glad that he is happy and healthy with us and developing his own characteristics as a little human, but I need to admit that I was a bit sad.
I am not perfect, but I am still his entire world.
There are many times that I felt that I was not good enough. However, my little one always looks for me and gets comfort from me. I know I am his world as he is mine. This has driven me to try to become a better mother. I know I cannot be a perfect mother, but I will be the best version of mom that I can be.
There are too many things that I need to appreciate. I am thankful for my little family. I am thankful for my healthy little man. I am thankful for the love and partnership that my husband and I share.
Thank you, baby D! You complete me.
- Minnie